一段爱的教训

两个人的结晶
一段五味杂陈的感情
一个小宇宙装下两个人的世界
永远不忘要把对方当小女人宠爱
永远不忘尊重对方
永远不能忽略了对方
在Ta人的角度思考
顾虑Ta人的感受
哪怕生活只是那简简单单；平平淡淡的
快乐的过着每一天；足以
而不是扛着压力过每一日
一段感情里
要学会增进自己；而不是停留在原地
两个人一起守候同一个目标
从同一个起跑点开始
一起冲向目标
不需要太快；不能太慢；要同步；互助
荣华富贵；只是享受的一份子
互相关照；才是真正的精华
当初许下的承诺必须要做到
不需要天马行空；只要守诺
有Ta人之心；才能守到最后
得过且过；即成过客

#努力做好自己

 

 

Family with different sir name

We are once having the same class during secondary school, but it was 7 years ago. I did met them in the different year. Counting from the left, a girl with sun-glass, we've met each other since primary, our friendship - 10 years above and still counting.
During secondary school, I've met the guy on the right, it would be 10 years done. In between of us may have mentally conflict, but bros doesn't care much, friendship went well until today.
We always playing games together during secondary school. Chit chatting in class until the day end. Without any concern on learning. Damn relaxing.
While, words to say him, he is "sohai". That's it. :\
After one year knowing that guy, I met that 2 girls in between.
The girl with red shirt, while she meant' to be a "bro" in my life, we sit together for 2 years during secondary school, yes, just right beside me for two years (secondary class, student seats together with even number of 2). She's kinddya simple in personality, but complicated mind.
We speaks heart to heart, sharing up and down in our life.
When bad things came to her, I'll be the listener, convincing her, giving advice and supportive.
Meanwhile, she will be the listener for me while I'm emotional.
She is a crazy girl feel with different emotional, but still treating us very well.
She was like our elder sister, not in age, but she did take good care of us, listening to our up and downs. While, she is the one who had longest experiences in society, so she will took the elder sign. Forgiveness given while you saw this post, yet you still own the "elder" title.
We've never having conflict in friendship, just a little dispute in between, sometimes.
Years that we knowing each other so well, sometimes an eye sight will do to understands each others needs, it meant' to be.
Once in my life, the middle one meant' to be the "loved" one in my life, yet things screwed up. Until now, it gone well with a perfect friendship. Year that we met, we're close enough; things screwed up and it took 1 year to fix it. After relationship gone well with each other for another 1 year, yet we're close enough; again, it screwed up. Apparently we seems to be comfort in friendship zone. 
That little girl in the middle was the youngest in age, also in mind. Our friendship broken for years with very little things and she drag distance in between, our friendship only went well while we are having diploma in our college. Apparently we seems to be comfort in friendship zone. From that time on, our friendship gone stronger year by year. Slowly, she meant' to be soul mate, a person that I could share most of my up and down, my life, my stuffs. It can be known that I shall not be the closes one for her, but she meant that for me, because things never come equally in life, this is reality. She treated me sincerely, that would be fine for me - what i really care about was, i hope our friendship solid enough for the entire life. An optimistic mindset that able to let her being smile always. She give good advice. She never shown up with sad and madness emotional, would only know when she was mad and upset, if you know her well. I admit that i would not have perfect sense on this, but sometimes will know it. When it comes, try to give her ice cream. She was like little girl, easily to convince and forget bad things after a good things happens. #happykids

七年前的我们在不同的年份里相遇
偶然的缘分让我们团聚于高一六班
毕业于高二六班
散于2012
聚集的两年里，起起落落般地与彼此度过了
起伏不定的喜怒哀乐
让彼此更以了解
颠簸的友谊；
毁于道听途说
谐于她人劝说
走着走着,有的步入社会,有的就读大学
初步陌生的环境里满怀期待与怀念；
期待着大学的新生活

怀念着中学的久生活
步入社会——充满着忐忑
承受着社会的压力
彼此心中都怀念——那些年
残留的怀念让彼此还有联络
这一丝丝残留的碎片
随着彼此忙碌的生活而消失
每一次邀约的所剩无几
可说只有在大学里的你和我
不晓得在您的回忆里是否还残留着那初入大学的回忆
那些在陌生的环境里还可以快乐的过着的回忆
因为陌生与眷念
让我们常接触
时间飞逝——让我们认识了班上的同学
担心着您身边朋友的误会
让我们停止相约
这一丝的误会里让习惯给打靶
就此少约
时隔两三年我们并没有创着任何回忆
直到大学我们才有再次相遇
走偏各各有趣的咖啡馆
吃吃喝喝的过肥年
偶尔会是三人行
时间的配合大多于双人行
就读大学的余年里
你们已步入社会
忙碌的生活让彼此少约
#谢谢您在我最需要的时候陪伴
#一切心领——心知
希望着中学聚会的我们
就此展开了一个难忘的泰国之旅
四人行
有着喜怒哀乐
这次的泰国之旅
成为了我们这一家的起跑点
不知何故
也成为了我们的盲点
心挂遗憾与伤痕
让彼此关系走入了盲区
敏感与脆弱的心
让关系动摇
偶然的聊话里——一切被释然
也许来得太突然
但却隐藏了很多的误会
这一切需要被摊开来说
免得伤痕越割越深
事到如今
我与您坦白的对白
希望您能用坦然的心去面对

对彼此坦然

相信我;因为我相信你

只有信任,才能永永远远的走下去

心需要信任而形

也接受我这位知音
对您无害
无所谓我不是你的知心
人生的得以一知己足矣
在这各奔西东的年代里
我们能相遇是缘分
相约是巧合
珍惜彼此才是最重要
#谢谢你们在我最需要的时候
#那一丝的陪伴与关怀

Memorable Degree Life

The very short period of class that i attended in my Degree life, probably 2 semester in my whole Degree life. A class that i involved with not more than 150 days. For me, it shall be satisfied. Although the period is short for me in my Uni-life, but it mean't more than the counted days. A random shift from the previous class into this class were grateful. Knowing not more than 10 male in a class, with total female of twice numbers of boys.
A class of 24 persons full of passionate in between, an amiable environment, a very authentic of individual. Act not individually but in group, linking each other sincerely. A class that could reach a mutual agreement and ideas, sharing and caring.
Different individual consists of different potential :-
There are a few goods in singing, even compete in singing competition.
An individual that are just perfect to built up happiness ambiance in the class.
Individual who spoke loudly as a speaker in class (just only sometimes).
Individual who good in study.
Individual who jokes around.
They mix together to have chat, no matter girls or boys.
I felt grateful to have such class, hereby sending my gratitude to all the classmates.
I felt cherish to receive confession from random individual.
Those confession were hilarious and sincere.

Hereby I note my confession to y'all:

Thank you for filling part of my life with such buoyant and memorable events. If time could travel back through, i'd rather exchange myself with someone. If it was, we are held to be more friendly and closer.

A very best luck for me in my final paper and we shall meet in the graduation. Exactly the same date as when you guys grants graduation.

Happy Graduation to all of you.
Good Luck in Future.

Respect

Remember that one day -
You've said : You need to respect yourself first before you want others to respect you.
So, how do you define "Respect" ?
A way that could let other bow before you?
A way that would let people talk humbly to you and fear of you?
Honestly, since we were born, the first thing that we learnt in our life was - Respect.
Everyone should know how to respect others first 
If you could ever said that, how much do you really respected on yourself
I would say - You were wrong
No one will really know how to respect yourself, Respect comes with something 
If you say, I fulfill what my own needs - This is satisfaction
If you say, I enjoyed my days and life - This is appreciation
You did not gain any other's respect, you are a failure
I could ever said that, if someday you lost your cash, the one will stay beside you is your family
Because they respected you as a person that growth them up, who give them daily needs
How about your friends?
How many friends that really respect you? 
With your attitude and personality, I can bet that there are only 10% of people around you will give respect to you
You don't ever respect others
You said that I must respect myself first, and yes, I may not know how to respect myself
But i got many respects from others
Maybe you could state out - How to respect yourself in a better way, i would say - Egotistical
Not to curse you but in future you won't be able to be a leader
You might know how to teach
You are a good lecturer but not a good leader
Dream for your AD position, it might come afterlife 

Manners Maketh Man

Missing fragment in my life

Life was like jigsaw, it became completed when missing fragments comes together.
Blank jigsaw do not mean't anything; you're the only one
Friends was part of your jigsaw; Who joy your life
Family was another part of fragments; Who never leave you
Whole jigsaw, all I've gone is the one last fragments; Which is you
We used to chat everyday although just few sentences;
We used to share our life to each other;
We used to listen to each other's feelings;
Since when we fought with each other and we don't talk anymore.
Your missing are mean't too much for me.
Ever since I have problem in my mind, you would be the one who cure me.
Every time I drowned in my life, you're the one who hooked me up.
While I'm down, you cheer me up *every peeps talk are still in my mind*
Mistake that I did, you were the reminder of me, who correct me.
What if time could travel back, you're now listening to me 
We are now having a long phone talk
I felt suffocating currently
How I wish you were here to listen my heart
Do you heard me?

Memories

Im wondering...

I can't even understand why it would be like this, I had put enough and a lot of effort but i can't even get a sense of truth from you.... can i know what did you thinking? Some of the words from you I believe is your truth word but things had covered with " just a joke". 
I'm wondering that why is that ...you are a weird sometimes ....freedom is needed for other's people...you understand? Don't grab too hard, you will asphyxiate that person....everything had changed became very very weird...I can't even offer an explanation to myself...What,Why,What,When,How...this is how i felt on you now...I wish someday we could have a clear talk ..without any arguing or what...just wish that .....understanding is necessary for each of us... I appreciated you...But ..I don't think you appreciate me...It had been a long journey we gone through, please, i hope we can be a very fine friend...without any blemish... this is what i wish for..just simple...

#positive mind set motivate ourselves 

Diploma life

I'm happy to end my diploma with those parties, and also...some motivation that changed me a lot from the first semester until now....I'm trying hard to keep changing myself to become a better man but still there are still some sickness on my personality, the way i speak =)
I apology to what i had done with my words and i would like to say..no offense, just something that get used to it sometimes....hanging out around, playing together....
On the first beginning I entered this class and I got some friends, but at the end of semester one I lost most of them but I known a treasure one....she's good somehow and I'm glad to know her....she aid me a lots but i still losing the motivation to study...sorry but thanks 
At the 5th semester i met another girl that involve my life, she's the one that hate me on semester one....at the beginning we hang out together with the numbers of 4 and at last we became 3 person...termination is needed on someone that with insufficient qualification? heh...
For me, 3 of us had gone through many memories in my mind, and it's nice to have such a very nice chat together always...the person that could fulfill my life with better activities that made me not bored at all and I think there is still the meaning for me that no regrets that I came into this class..our gang has became huge and huge and more people in our group, with a sincere heart from them I can feel that, and also some of them with certain "purposes" to enter this group, with no offense to judge but just my feeling, anyway it's good to have such huge group, I'm very enjoy every moment we had been gone through tho... :)

Our dinner on last day of diploma life --- Steamboat ,yummy :P

A group of us, a huge gang !! lots of fun moment --- We sing together

One of the girl that i appreciate that could scold and improve my bad

*( The other one I would like to collect a selfie with her )*

Both of them are my treasure one always in my diploma life, and also my motivation 

There is another challenge came into my life which that I would like to wish that i can pass all my subjects this time and raise my CGPA to 2.75 to fulfill the requirement to same class as you guys ...It's 0.125 more...i can do it!! hehe :)
I won't let the stories of my life end here with them but will end together on degree life until to the society...

#Fight Hard For Final
#Meet You Two At Degree
#Same Class 

Stories will end or continue?